The Mayonnaise Jar…

The Mayonnaise Jar

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day is not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and two cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.

When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and fills it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured it into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “YES”.

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things – God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions. Things, that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car. The sand is everything else — the small stuff.” he said.

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “There is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are
important to you…” he told them.

“So… pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Worship with your family. Play with your children. Take your partner out to dinner. Spend time with good friends. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the dripping tap. Take care of the golf balls first — the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled and said, “I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”

Please share this with other “Golf Balls”

“Yesterday is a cancelled check, tomorrow is a promissory note, today or right now is the only cash we are truly dealing with.” ~Unsure.

If I Knew Then What I Know Now: Overwhelm

By 
Harry Selkow

Published: January 22, 2012Posted in: ColumnsIron BrothersTags: 

If I Knew Then What I Know Now: Overwhelm
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Overwhelm

Standing in the gym this morning, I had an overwhelming feeling that there was no way to get everything I had planned for the day finished. I needed to train 30 or so athletes (or there about) and I had to rehab my shoulder and hamstrings. My bride needed her training supervised and spotted and my son need attention, too. Not only those things, but also my puppy needed attention and I had to make sure it didn’t have a “puppy accident,” while watching the strength practices from the lifting platform. 

THEN, I needed to train myself and get home before Team Selkow went to a luncheon for a friend. With hockey practice looming in the not-too-distant future (tonight at 6), I was already planning dinner and getting to bed and it wasn’t even 6:30AM. 

Definition of OVERWHELM

transitive verb

1: upsetoverthrow

2a : to cover over completely : submerge

Examples of OVERWHELM

  1. Don’t overwhelm him with facts.
  2. They were overwhelmed with work.

Synonyms: crushdevastatefloorgrind (down)oppressovercomeovermasteroverpowerprostrate,snow underswampwhelm

Stop

What I needed to do was stop for a moment and realize that I should be happy about where I was, with all the activity that surrounded me, and focus solely on the task at hand.

“Yesterday is a cancelled check, tomorrow is a promissory note, today or right now is the only cash we are truly dealing with.” ~Unsure.

Or in other words, the reason “NOW is called the present…because it is a gift,” began to ring louder and more clear.

I stopped! I focused on my immediate and most important task. Note! Task, singular and focused. I left the urgent for what was important. I began to live for the people that I was training at the hour. I began to focus wholeheartedly on their needs, and NOT what I needed to do in the next hour. I saw clearly the changes that had to be accomplished in the flawed movements of some, and I reveled in the effortless manner of others whom have perfectly honed their skills.

Focus

I coached both my wife, and child in seemingly timeless effort. I sent them off to their day of friend and food with smiles and pats of congratulations for jobs well done. I managed to focus on my broken body parts and fortification of otherwise healthy ones, without so much of a thought as to where I needed to be next.

Where I needed to be, was right where I was.

I began to think, how often I’ve been guilty of either living in the past, to predict my future, or how much time I devote to conquering distant goals?

Be Thankful

I can’t change the things in the past. I realize they are what brought me to this very place and very time, even as I write this on my computer. I am thankful for all the things both good and bad, which have allowed me this moment. All of my past experiences are the summation of decisions that shape my present.

I don’t want to focus aimlessly into the future.

“A man without a plan is like a ship without a rudder, destined for disaster.”

I will continue to write goals and objectives to meet those goals. However, I won’t stress the small deviations that occur and take you from that path in order to find new and very cool (or not so) things serendipitously. No, instead, embrace those moments that seem as if they are stressful deterrents and place them into the “stuff happens” box. Whether good or bad, it is the experience that we are after. It makes for more interesting conversations. too.

Live for the Moment

Living for the moment you are in right now, allows for time to stop, or fast-forward. It takes the idea of multi-tasking away. (That stuff doesn’t really work anyway.) It gives you laser-like focus, and allows for completion of things that are important to YOU, and not-so-urgent to others.

Being present gives you a clearer picture of the successes you obtain in the gym. You aren’t anywhere else. You are in the gym, not at work, not checking your Twitter, Facebook, or e-mail, you are focused on weight lifting destruction. Being present in your relationships builds a stronger bond. You aren’t thinking about your committee meeting next Tuesday. You aren’t thinking about the missed lift last Friday. You actually hear AND listen to whom you are with at the moment.

Yes?

When my son says “Dad!” I answer, “yes?” What do you think that boy will remember when I’m gone? That I answered every time, and that answer was YES. What do you think he will answer the call of HIS son with? (Oops! I think I slipped into future mode. I didn’t say it was easy to be in the present). It takes practice. You are given as much opportunity to practice, as there are seconds in the day (or night if you count that too).

Take the next moment and live in it. Take the next meeting and be in the meeting. Take the next training session, and give that 100 percent of your focus. Try commuting home and actually THINK about the commute, and not just arriving.

You might get a LOT more out of what you are living for.

Do You Hear Voices?….

That Little Voice

Posted on January 30, 2012 by -CFNH

“I’m so tired.”
“You can do it.”
“Just one more rep.”
“I dunno, that looks heavy.”
“Just lift the bar.”

We’ve all got a little voice in our head, sometimes it’s helpful , sometimes it’s not.

“Did the dog just talk to me?”

Sometimes it’s really not. No matter how helpful or unhelpful (or strange) that little voice in your head is, it’s actually trainable, just like the rest of your body. It takes effort and near constant attention, and you have to hold that attention in even the toughest of circumstances. The middle of a WOD, for example.

At some point, there’s been someone you’ve seen do a WOD who just amazed you. Not the firebreather who just blazed through the WOD, but that person who finished last, minutes behind the next closest person, but who kept going. Who kept moving. Who ground their way through to the end. What makes that person keep going, keep powering through even when no one else is cheering? It’s that little voice.

It’s powerful enough to get you through an ugly WOD and powerful enough to derail an easy one. It can be your biggest fan or your biggest enemy. But ultimately, you’re in control of it.

Today’s a good day to start working on it. Just look at that WOD over there. Is that little voice already telling you it’s going to suck? You can start working on it before you even get to the gym! Remind yourself how much you love wall balls! How awesome burpees are! And add a box jump on the end of that burpee? How could that not be even more awesome?

See? You’ve already taken the first step to reprogramming that little voice. Now try it again without letting the little voice sound so sarcastic

Yin and Yang….

CrossFit and Yoga – Yin and Yang

CROSSFITMY SPORTYOGA — BY  ON DECEMBER 26, 2011 10:23 AM 

CrossFit AllStarKC Stallsmith, owner CrossFit AllStar

“Yin yang are not opposing forces (dualities), but complementary opposites that interact within a greater whole, as part of a dynamic system.” – Wikipedia

Prior to starting CrossFit, I practiced yoga for four years.  I finally gave it up as I wanted to find an exercise program that was a bit more strength oriented – enter CrossFit.   CrossFit has certainly provided strength, but I have been wondering if it might make more sense to try and combine the two disciplines.

To help me explore this, I sought out the advice of my friends Megan Combies and KC Stallsmith.  Megan is a CrossFit and Yoga coach in Santa Cruz, CA, and KC is the owner and a coach at CrossFit AllStar in Hawaii

Question to MeganI would characterize CrossFit as “Loud and Intense” which is pretty much the opposite of how I view yoga (peaceful, mindful, and centered) – How can you integrate the two worlds?

At first glance Yoga and CrossFit are incredibly different. Just as you stated, CrossFit is loud, intense, and aggressive. Yoga on the other hand is about finding peace, being mindful and opening your heart. But when you look deeper at both of these disciplines you will find some commonalities and ways in which they complement each other. Being completely present, staying with your breath, being non-judgmental, being supportive, staying calm and focused, clear, balanced, strong, determined. The list goes on and as you may have noticed, the only real differences are the ego and competition. In yoga we try and release our ego and try not to compete with anyone whereas CrossFit builds the ego and creates competition. This is where I believe the two balance each other out the best. Yoga keeps you humble and grateful, CrossFit keeps you continually pushing your own limits, yoga teaches you to understand and honor your boundaries, and both build confidence to do what you may have never dreamed to be possible.

Question to KC:  Why did you decide to combine CrossFit and Yoga?

I was working as a CrossFit coach and surprised at the lack of mobility and stretching offered in most of the workouts I was asked to deliver. I started adding small bits of yoga and mobility at the end of my classes. Feeling that this was an important, and often neglected aspect of many CrossFit classes, I eventually did 100 hours of yoga teacher training in Hatha Yoga and a 100 hour Anusara Yoga Immersion. This was a gift I gave to myself to help myself understand more about my body and how I can give myself the gift of Yoga. Now as a Certified Yoga Teacher, Certified CrossFit Trainer and Affiliate owner, I am thrilled to humbly share the gift of yoga with others, especially CrossFitters who will experience the profound benefits of Yoga, that even go beyond the physical.

Question to Megan:  If CrossFit is your primary mode of exercise, how would you suggest adding in a yoga practice?

I am a firm believer that you cannot have one without the either. Research shows that the two types of individuals most prone to injury are individuals who are too flexible and individuals that are too tight. The first causes laxity in the joint, the latter causes problems such as loss of range of motion and pulling of the musculature on the skeletal structure causing improper alignment. With that said, I would recommend an individual supplement CrossFit with a yoga practice about twice a week. More for those who are naturally more rigid and tight as these individuals are more prone to injury.

Seeing as how most CrossFit box’s run their program as 3 days on and 1 day off, the rest days would be perfect for the yoga practice. Another option would be post WOD to help alleviate the tightness and soreness that occurs after. I would NOT recommend a yoga practice right before a WOD as research shows that after an intense session of stretching, you lose the ability to produce maximum force in your musculature for about an hour or so.

“Yoga is just plain good medicine for the CrossFit athlete, and you might even find it good for the soul.  Meditation and yoga WILL help your CrossFit performance along with all areas of your life.” – KC

What about you?  Do you combine yoga with another exercise program?

Read more: http://myathleticlife.com/2011/12/crossfit-yoga-definition-yin-yang/#ixzz1kHw0xKQi

Simple Truth #1….Quality Nutrition

 

If you plant tomato seeds in your garden you are going to get tomatoes.  You are NEVER going to get an oak tree.  You cannot change the tomatoes GENETICS.  But, if you water the tomatoes with pure clean water, feed the tomato organic compost and mulch as they grow and plant the seeds where they will get the most sunlight, you are going to grow AMAZING TOMATOES!  Genetics you cannot change, it’s water under the bridge, but a healthy environment will have a HUGE IMPACT on your RESULTS.

We cannot change our genetics.  What is done is done.  But YOU can change your ENVIRONMENT and  your LIFESTYLE, and this will DRAMATICALLY CHANGE your level of HEALTH and your resistance to disease.

If you feed yourself more pure water and fresh juices instead of soda and beer, if you feed yourself more healthy, nutritious food instead of junk food and candy and if you create a healthier lifestyle and environment, YOU WILL PREVENT DISEASES, PREVENT YOUR GENETIC FLAWS AND LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE!

Biggest Loser and CrossFit…

http://myathleticlife.com/2012/01/crossfit-biggest-loser-biggest-winner-2012/

 

CrossFit: The Biggest Loser or the Biggest Winner in 2012

CROSSFITFEATUREDHEALTHMY SPORT — BY  ON JANUARY 2, 2012 9:29 AM 
 

CrossFit and The Biggest Loser

Without a doubt, CrossFit has been on a tear.  In less than a decade, over 2500 gyms have been certified and affiliated with CrossFit, and the number of people who participate in CrossFit workouts is on the order of 500,000.

The prize money for the first CF Games in 2007 was $500 compared to the staggering $250,000 for the top male and female finishers at the 2011 Games – Thank you Reebok (source – Social WOD)

But what will the future bring?  Can CrossFit continue to attract new gyms and will those gyms be able to grow as profitable businesses?

One interesting twist will be to see what the combination of CrossFit and The Biggest Loser provides.

What am I talking about?  Check out this series of tweets about CrossFit and The Biggest Loser from trainer Bob Harper:

CrossFit and The Biggest Loser

Luckily, the season premiere of CrossFit and The Biggest Loser is Tuesday, January 3rd.  Will this be a positive or a negative for CrossFit and their affiliates?

Any predictions

Read more: http://myathleticlife.com/2012/01/crossfit-biggest-loser-biggest-winner-2012/#ixzz1iSNHXEWR

The 15 Most Inspiring Health & Fitness Images of 2011

by Jordan Shakeshaft · 10 days ago · Fitness

From medical miracles to courageous feats of strength, 2011 was a year filled with awe-inspiring events, individuals, and inventions. The Greatist Team looks back on this extraordinary year in health and fitness through the images that most inspired us.

15. UC Irvine Holds the World’s Largest Dodgeball Game

Duck, dive, dodge! On September 21, UC Irvine earned their second dodgeball world record with 4,488 participants getting in on the action. Photo: Luis Sinco/Los Angeles Times

14. The First Lady Jumps Around

As part of her Let’s Move! Campaign, First Lady Michelle Obama hit the South Lawn of the White House with local school kids in attempt to break the Guinness World Record for the most people doing jumping jacks in a 24-hour period. Cardio never looked so fun! Photo: Olivier Douliery/ABACA

 13. 91-Year-Old Yoga Teacher Refuses to Quit

At it since 1960, 91-year-old Bernice Bates is officially the world’s oldest yoga instructor. Talk about practice! Photo: Matt May/Guinness World Records

12. Medical Breakthrough: New Mirror Monitors Health

Named one of Popular Science magazine’s top inventions of 2011, this no-touch system tracks and displays users’ heart rates in real time without the need for external sensors. Healthy see, healthy do!Photo: photos.siggraph.org

11. Oldest Man to Swim the English Channel

Forget the lap pool. On August 30, 70-year-old Roger Allsopp became the oldest man to swim the English Channel. The journey from Dover, England, to Calais, France took him 17 hours and 51 minutes. Photo: Gareth Fuller, PA/Landov

10. U.S. Women Beat Out Brazil

Brandi Chastain’s famous sports bra celebration was so 1999. After an unbelievable comeback, the U.S. Women’s National Team celebrated their advancement to the 2011 World Cup semifinals, beating Brazil 5-3 in a penalty shootout. Photo: Scott Heavey/Getty Images

9. World Population Reaches 7 Billion

Danica Mae Camacho got more than the usual welcome wagon. The Philippines’ symbolic 7 billionth baby, little Danica was delivered in Manila on October 31st. Photo: Ted Aljibe/AFP/Getty Images

8. Food Day Feeds the World

“Food Prices — From Crisis to Stability.” That was the theme for World Food Day 2011, a worldwide event dedicated to increasing awareness of world hunger and bringing meals to those in need, including the children of the Turkana Region of Kenya (pictured above). Photo: blog.childfund.org

7. The World’s Oldest Man: Jirouemon Kimura

The oldest man alive might also be the most serene. On April 19th, Jiroemon Kimura quietly celebrated his 114th birthday at his home near Kyoto, Japan. Photo: AP/Kyotango City Office

6. Uganda Welcomes the Digital Drum

Knowledge is power! Chosen as one of Time magazine’s best innovations of 2011, UNICEF’s Digital Drum may not make music, but the sustainable, solar-powered kiosks are making information more accessible with selections relating to health, education, and protection from violence and abuse. Over the next two years, UNICEF Uganda aims to install more than 100 additional kiosks throughout the country. Photo: UNICEF Uganda/Jeremy Green

5. Deaf Woman Hears Voice for the First Time

Sloan Churman was born deaf and for 29 years relied on hearing aids and reading lips. But all that changed when she received a hearing implant. Watch the sheer joy she experiences after turning it on for the first time. Photo: YouTube.com

4. Marathon Mom Runs 9 Months Pregnant

Amber Miller ran the Chicago Marathon days before her due date, then gave birth to her baby just hours later. This was her third time running a marathon while pregnant, and her second marathon during this pregnancy. Crazy? Maybe. Totally inspirational? Absolutely. Photo: Chuck Berman/Chicago Tribune

3. Blind Weightlifter Competes in World Championships

Australian weightlifter Malek Chamoun trains in his garage for the 2011 World Weightlifting Championships in Paris. The most remarkable part: Chamoun was diagnosed with retinitis pigmentosa at the age of seven and was declared legally blind by 15. Photo: Brett Costello/The Daily Telegraph

2. Bladerunner Makes IAAF World Championship Semifinals

Earning every inch of his nickname, South Africa’s “Bladerunner” Oscar Pistorius, a double amputee, competed in the men’s 400m semifinal at the IAAF World Championships in Daegu, South Korea. Photo: Mark Blinch/Reuters

1. Gabrielle Giffords Returns to Washington

After what can only be described as a miraculous recovery, Democratic Rep. Gabrielle Giffords returned to Washington on October 6th to attend a Navy retirement ceremony for her husband, astronaut Mark Kelly. This was Giffords’ second visit to the Capitol since she was shot through the head in a Tuscon shooting spree that killed six people and wounded 12 others. Photo: David Lienemann/AP/The White House

CrossFitter’s Hands…

by Andre Anna

 

They belong to doctors, lawyers,

Students, mothers.

They are black, white, brown,

and every color in between.

They callous, they tear, they bleed.

Some have wedding bands.

Some have marks where one once was.

Some have bitten down nails.

Others have perfectly manicured cuticles.

For every difference they have,

they are, among all else equal.

They callous, they tear, they bleed.

Because they push

when they want to give up.

They grab the bar and pull

when they feel like there’s nothing left.

They hold the barbell and lift

when the skin is rubbed raw.

They callous, they tear, they bleed.

They fist pump each other

after a workout so hard, they almost cry.

They hug people who have become family

when they get their first pull-up.

They high-five the girl who took 20 minutes

longer than everyone else,

because she finished.

They clap and cheer as they wait for the guy

running his first mile.

They clink a beer at a bar on the weekend,

brethren in some secret club.

They callous, they tear, they bleed.

They are not pretty.

They are beautiful.

A CrossFitter’s hands.

Does Sugar Call You By Your First Name?…

http://robbwolf.com/2011/12/01/crazy-cravings-how-do-cookies-pizza-etc-know-your-name/

CRAZY Cravings: How do cookies, pizza, etc. know your name??

Let’s play pretend…  Imagine that you had a great week of eating well, exercising, and feeling good.  It’s Friday night – dinner out and possibly a movie are in the cards.  Your intentions are good.  You’re going to keep it clean and if anything, maybe have a drink with dinner.  At the restaurant everything on the menu looks great and even though your plan was grilled steak and broccoli the cheeseburger and fries special looks a little too good to pass up.  In fact you’re pretty sure you can hear the Heinz ketchup bottle on the table screaming at you – “ORDER THE FRIES”.  It’s just one meal so what the heck, you spring for burger and fries and throw in a milkshake for good measure.   Now that was GOOD – we’re talking the stuff dreams are made of – and now you are STUFFED.  Off to the theatre to catch the 9:00 pm show.  You walk in, and even though you are uncomfortably full you can’t help but be tempted by the scent of buttery popcorn.  In fact, you actually feel like you NEED some…  And so the weekend continues.  Sunday night rolls around and you basically feel awful.  The weekend tasted great, but now you are dealing with a massive “food hangover” and more guilt than a death-row inmate.  Why did this happen?  How did the cravings that you so vigilantly fought off all week manage to run you over like a freight train?  Why do you feel like you want/NEED certain foods?  How did the cookies, ice cream, pizza, potato chips, beer, etc. find out your name and why can’t they stop calling it??

Cravings – we all have them.  If someone tells you that they NEVER crave anything they are lying like a rug…  There is good news though; the longer we fight off/avoid certain foods – sugar, carbohydrates, overly salty foods, etc. and the healthier we become – the fewer and less powerful the cravings will be. But at some point, for one reason or another, everyone is tempted.  And why have you never once (or VERY rarely) had a sudden craving for a big plate of broccoli (unless maybe it’s covered with cheese…)?  There are actually three classes of craving triggers.  Yep, three – because just one wouldn’t be enough…  So which of the three triggers are pulling you toward your cravings most often??

#1.) Biological Triggers

These are the signals that your body sends you and usually mean that something is out of balance.  For example, if your serotonin or blood sugar levels get low or if you are in a state of adrenal fatigue it is likely that you will experience more and stronger cravings.  Additionally, if you are dehydrated, short on sleep or lacking a certain nutrient you are more likely to hear the OREO’s calling your name. Here are a few specific examples from moderate to extreme:

Bread, bagels, pasta, cookies – if you are craving sugary, starchy food it may mean that your blood sugar and/or serotonin levels are low.

Candy, sweet stuff – how did you sleep last night??  Your body probably needs sleep more than it needs sugar…

Chocolate – try some magnesium.  If it’s truly a biological craving, you might be lacking in this nutrient!

Ice, chalk, paper, or dirt – craving non-food items (yes, this does happen) signals extreme nutrient deficiencies.  The name for this condition is pica.

#2.) Emotional Triggers

Do you eat when you’re stressed, upset, happy, sad, feeling guilty or maybe, all of the above???  If you answered yes then you are an emotional eater.  Uncovering the reason that the Reese’s reach out to you is important in fending off these cravings.  Here are a few things to consider:

Are you stressed out?  Stress cravings can occur up to 24 hours post stress response!!  So even if you feel calm and collected when the cookies call stress could still be the culprit in your craving.

Feeling guilty?  This one is a biggie!!  So, you had the fries and now you’re thinking, I blew it and figure you might as well just keep going and eat all of the foods that you usually don’t indulge in.

Eating by association:  When you were growing up did your parents give you a certain food when you were sad, upset, sick, hurt, or as a reward?  Do you associate certain foods with happiness and/or celebrations?  These feelings may be triggers for your feedings…

#3.) External Triggers

Finally and most commonly are the ‘external’ triggers.  These range from obvious to obscure:  walking into a movie theater and smelling popcorn, seeing a commercial on TV for a juicy cheeseburger or a picture of an ice cream sundae in a magazine, looking at the clock and realizing that it’s noon, hearing the ding of the microwave, watching others eat, and the list goes on.  There are SO many cues for us to eat and they just keep multiplying!!

TV, internet, magazine ads, billboards, restaurant signs and fronts – these are all MAJOR cues that we are exposed to nearly every second of every day. We are so ‘connected’ these days that exposure to the media and its messages is a fact of life.

Eating by the clock – we are trained from a young age that we need to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner.  Often we have times associated with these meals and whether we are hungry or not, we eat.  This happens with snacks too – think back to grade school.  What did you do when you got home every day??

Smells, sounds and the behavior of others – the scent of fresh baked bread, French fries, or popcorn, hearing the microwave ding or people crunching/chewing, and seeing others eat are all things that make us feel hungry or leave us wanting a certain food.

Now that you know the possible reasons why certain foods seem to be on a first name basis with you it’s your job to identify your major triggers and be aware of the role these foods are playing in your life.  Above all things food should not rule your life.  It is there to provide the energy and nutrients we need to live, it should be enjoyed but should not be your only enjoyment.  Next up we’ll talk about methods for dealing with cravings because they shouldn’t make you CRAZY!!!